Friday, October 17, 2008

fitrah atau budaya?


wahai bapa2 & ibu2..bertemu lg kte kali ini untuk mendengar luahan & idea baru..topik kali ini..buaian!

sbb ramai drpd sahibul sahabat yg dh kawin..ramai jgk yg dh ada anak..yg belum dpt blh cuba lg..mgkin belum ada rezeki..aku nk utarakan persoalan mengenai buaian. lazim kte tgk org kalau ada anak kecik akan letak anak dlm buaian sbb kate org tua2 mcm pope..budak kecik blh tdo lena..ye ke? kalau x letak dlm buaian x lena ke tdo budak tu? aku dgr jgk ade parents yg x guna buai tp anak diorg tdo lena je..tp tahap mana lena budak tu tdi x tau la. mcm contoh kalau kte anta anak kt rmh pengasuh..selalu mesti diorg mintak buai dgn alasan nk bg budak tido lena. mcm anak aku jgk..aku dh bgtau kt pengasuh xnk guna buai..tp br seminggu dh mintk aku beli buai..katenye ank aku x lena tdo..


‘There are so many myths about babies and sleep – it is no wonder that many parents are unaware of babies' true sleep needs. When parents recognise that there is great variability in children’s ability to sleep through the night, they can be reassured that it is normal for their baby to wake up and to need help to return to sleep.’

so buaian ni mmg fitrah atau budaya yg kite masih ikut? ataupun mmg kesahihan wujud ttg persoalan td?